Waste Less

 


There is something to be said about where we place our energy. The grand goal for myself this year was "to waste less." Waste less time, waste less money, and waste less energy on things that were not going to benefit me, my goals or happiness. I have found myself wasting time and energy on things that are no longer serving me and the challenging task of being aware and shifting that energy. 

If you've ever read Viktor Frankl's Man Search for Meaning, he talks about how pain is inevitable. We will all experience pain in life, but suffering is an option. This quote and the one posted above have been in the forefront of my mind recently. If I choose to allow the challenges, hurdles, hard days and overwhelming emotions overpower me, I will become that negativity. I choose to embrace that. I know that for me, I need to sit in some of the negativity for a bit but not become it. That is the hardest part. It is easy to get stuck in the misery because it may be familiar. I know how to live in that, right? In some instances, the only thing I can control is how I respond. 

What would happen if we chose to place more energy in acknowledging the pain and negativity and then moving on, not becoming it? That can be unfamiliar.  I have attempted to be more aware of this and attempting to place more energy in things that will benefit me, my goals and happiness. It is harder than hell sometimes and I want to just give up and go back to what I "know" even if it isn't healthy. Being able to shift the energy into understanding and positivity is the objective. 

I have one major goal in life and that is to raise my two nuggets to know that they are worthy and to become independent and strong because they know their worth. I want to be the one to show them this. Even though negative things and pain will happen in life, we can choose if we suffer and remain miserable or choose to work through the pain and learn to "waste less" and be happy. 




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